who's really in control?

it certainly isn't hedda. i feel like she tries to control everyone because she has no control over herself. her whole life she seems to have had to listen to people and be under their power being a generals daughter and such probably wansn't a walk in the park and when she got older she saw the powe that her dad had and she wanted the same thing. she wanted to control and to be in control, if that makes sense. like she wanted to control others without herself being controlled by anyone. i think hedda is kind of lost in her life and she doesn't know how to find herself so she tries to control those around her, she controls tesman and thea and lovborg, but the one who has power over her is brack and she knows it and she doesn't like it which ultimatley causes her to kill herself.